Cats don’t use words, but they are constantly talking to us. Understanding their subtle cues can turn you from a “cat owner” into a “cat expert.” Here is a breakdown of the 20 most common signs grouped by how cats express them.

🐈 The Tail: The Mood Meter

1. Vertical & Quivering: They are thrilled to see you!

2. Upright (Question Mark): Feeling friendly and curious.

3. Low & Tucked: Sign of fear, anxiety, or submission.

4. Forceful Thumping: Aggression or extreme annoyance. Stop what you’re doing.

5. Slow Swishing: Deep concentration or contemplation.

6. Flicking Tip: Mild irritation or growing impatience.

👂 The Ears: The Radar

7. Forward & Neutral: Relaxed and content.

8. Twitching/Rotating: Alert and listening to surroundings.

9. Flattened (Airplane Ears): Feeling threatened, scared, or ready to fight.

10. Pinned Back: Intense anger or defensive posture.

👀 The Eyes: The Window to the Soul

11. Slow Blink: The “cat kiss.” It means “I trust and love you.”

12. Dilated Pupils (Big): Excitement, playfulness, or intense fear.

13. Narrowed Slits: Focus, confidence, or potential aggression.

14. Staring without Blinking: A challenge or a sign of dominance.

🐾 The Body & Posture

15. Arched Back (Fur Up): Trying to look bigger because they feel threatened.

16. Exposed Belly: Ultimate trust (but don’t always touch it—it might be a trap!).

17. Rubbing Against You: Claiming you as “their” territory using scent glands.

18. Kneading (Making Biscuits): Feeling extremely comfortable and safe.

19. Licking You: Social grooming; a sign of deep affection.

20. Tense/Crouched: Ready to pounce or feeling very uneasy.